Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Men & Love

Most men have large shoes to fill. Have you ever been hanging out with your boyfriend/fiance/husband and his buddies and they all (including your boyfriend/fiance/husband) started talking about inappropriate things in front of you like porn, sexual manly pride, etc? Grown men should know that's a big turn-off. But teenage guys aren't as relevant because they're learning about female morals.
And you know what else it a big turn-off and a possible break up cause? When your guy treats you like dirt when you're stressed out for a good reason. If you're with a guy like that, most likely you're wasting your time.
And even if we girls think we can change our cheating and/or abusive men, nope, not really. Most likely, the guy is not going to change. Who said so? Oprah Winfrey.
And a pet peeve of mine is that some guys have a thing called a "swag". A swag is when a guy rocks back and forth sideways when he walks. It's usually the gangster wannabes that do this swag thing, or really macho guys. But it gets on my nerves so much that I often make fun of them with my friends. No, just becuase I make fun of a guy's swag doesn't mean I'm a lesbian. And I'm not bisexual either, you stupid judgemental men reading this blog. I'm straight, I'm attracted to guys who don't swag, and also think swags are very annoying. Men don't naturally swag! It's like a fad or something. The most annoying fad I know!
Let alone guys pulling their pants down until half of their boxers are hanging out. I'll post a blog on the TRUE origin of pulled down pants later.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I like to write too. I am 52, and also blondish redhead, some may refer to as "ginger". I love the name Ginger, I wish it was mine. I want to become a designer, and I already am a painter. I hope you MaddieJo, find better friends so you can live your life with fuller value. Try to focus on the better side of life and not to much the darker side that you look at sometimes. I am a tree hugger too, I love nature and want so much for everyone to care about our Earth as our home and do clean green things to keep it that way;) I love exercise, for it keeps my mind clear of debris and gets rid of the "noise" of everyday life. Healthy foods are essential to feeling tip top. The amount you eat plays a big role in how you feel also. I was in a position where I was eating food to feel love. It made me feel safe, but it also made me very tired and I couldn't get anything done! As for men and love, I just fell out of love with a man who proved himself to be one who doesn't really care about anyone but his own self. Too bad for him. I love my life as it is I have my two daughters and that is a lot of love that I am so happy about. I thank God everyday for them, they really care about me too. Now he is gone and I am rediscovering myself and it feels good to be me again and not in control of a jerk. lol. I like your blog MaddieJo. Some guys never outgrow the swag thing I think, but oh they can stay over there ;)